Resetting social connections

March 13th, 2010

The following is… well, it’s something… written specifically for ex-girlfriends and former women I’ve dated, all of whom specifically want nothing to do with me any more… however, I think this also applies to any kind of dropped connection, too:

You don’t need to have anything to do with me, I understand that.  You don’t even need to be my friend, I also understand that.  I screwed up and handled the break-up and/or how I treated you when we dated incredibly poorly, I definitely understand that.  I am really crazy, like probably chemically crazy, we can probably both agree on that, too.  And, of course, people often just don’t want to associate with exes (or crazy people), I understand and respect that clearly as well.

Nevertheless, I happen to still think you’re pretty cool, so…

What I also understand is that there is often an unhealthy, if minor and mildly annoying, tension – an almost NEED that we artificially create in our minds to protect ourselves – a subconscious (or very concious) game of thinking about how to avoid a person that we previously had some kind of fallout with whenever they happen upon us.  At least, that’s what happens on my end.  Of course, I know I am not the most popular guy in the world, so your side and your thoughts when seeing me in a room could be quite different, but generally, I think that’s what happens.  Negative energy ensues.

But, I also think we all have kind of a common bond, and that’s our mutual associations, friends, and, potentially, future social exchanges of some kind, all of which remains worthwhile.  As for the latter, I’m talking “exchanges” of information, business, or maybe even service, in the least.  I think we just can’t close the “mutually beneficial” doors that life may present to us from time to time.  I know that in my chosen industry, a networker’s paradise, we pretty much never ignore a soul because someday we might be working for them, and vice versa.  Even if not financially.  You might show up for that community volunteer gig and find out the guy you loath is the one with the clipboard! Read the rest of this entry »

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For Dave Hanley, CEO of Banyan Branch

March 8th, 2010

As some of you know, and as some of you don’t know, I’ve been furiously looking for employment in social media.  Or some kind of Web content and video production.  Or, any kind of production, really.  Anything where I get to sit in front of a computer and make awesome happen.  That’s all I really want.

Last week I sat down with the CEO of social media management firm Banyan Branch, whose office is located over in the eclectic neighborhood of Fremont in Seattle, WA.  As he was in a bit of a hurry we headed over to Fremont’s Blue Moon Burgers to grab a quick bite and chit chat about “career advice”.   The stars had seemingly been aligning for this meeting – countless friends both from where I recently graduated at the UW’s MCDM as well as from mutual social contacts had been telling him about me and pointing me in Banyan’s direction.  I thoroughly expected the meeting to be a hit.  That’s when he proceeded to, inadvertently, make me feel really small.

Small enough that in the proceeding hours (although not his fault directly) I seriously considered committing suicide.  It was the straw that broke this camel’s back.

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Afternoon Chatroulette usage: the women come out, a little

February 27th, 2010

This is a follow-up to my earlier post, “Chatroulette by the numbers. (Also, visit that link for more on what Chatroulette is.)

A controversial new video chat service, Chatroulette, has spread like wildfire around the Web, and already major media outlets are chiming in on what it means, good or bad.  Now, although I generally agree with its already well-established reputation for being “creepy“, full of mostly males in their 20s masturbating on camera and generally behaving indecently, as a student of the Web and on-line communication, I thought it might be worth looking at Chatroulette as an authentic survey and insta-polling service.  Instead, I learned what was actually happening on Chatroulette, and that helped paint a picture for what it’s really all about.

My first study of the service, wherein I informally surveyed users about their usage… well, anyone who would actually take the time to speak with me (as opposed to being skipped – or, as this videographer put it, “nexted”)… proved to me that the service is more than just for the lewd-minded.  My survey actually led me to conclude that the primary purpose of the site isn’t just for sycophants to misbehave, but rather, for twentysomething men to go about looking for members of the opposite sex to simply connect with.  It that regard, it’s not much different than traditional dating services and from a lot of the behavior that takes place in the social media space already.  In other words, it’s not just about sex, but interpersonal co-ed communication (err, I guess that’s sex, too… but I can’t presume most users are actually looking for sexual encounters, in that regard).

Of course, my first study took place late at night, so I felt it wise to take a look at usage during the day as well (I’ll have a Prime Time usage study up eventually… the service is often down due to its newfound popularity during early evening hours).  My prediction was that I’d find more females on Chatroulette during the day.  Whether that was because more women are supposedly at home and have free time during the day, or more women are taking an interest in the service due to its recent media coverage, I cannot say.  It was just a hunch, but it ended up being mostly accurate.  However, I must strictly note that this was NOT a scientific study, and based on differences in time-zones, and the fact that several of the women I talked to were in timezones that were already well into evening hours, I’m leaning on the service’s new popularity having to do with finding more women.  And more non-US users.

Below are my findings.

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“Meme” is the least understood word on the Internet

February 24th, 2010

RickRollToday’s unusual disappearance of the original “RickRoll” video file uploaded to YouTube (which has amassed over 30 million views and was forever prominently featured on Rick Astley’s YouTube channel), has led popular übergeek Chris Pirillo to declare the Internet meme of RickRolling “dead” (update: ok, it looks like he understands the word ‘meme’ a bit more than I gave him credit for).

As much as I admire Chris, I’m not so sure he loads of other people don’t understand the meaning of the word “meme“.  A meme is an idea spread from person to person, not a single item or piece of so-called intellectual property.  Physical artifacts, or, in this case, Internet content items, can be used to spread ideas, but the ideas themselves exist only in the minds of those people exposed to them.  Simply removing one digital iteration, one copy, of a content item used to proliferate an idea does not effectively kill said idea, no matter how popular the content item might have been.  (Besides, the RickRoll video itself is so widespread that boundless digital copies and variations exist in numerous forms.)  Rickrolling is an idea, not intellectual property, and it therefore can never be subject to copyright, and it can never “die”.

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Chatroulette by the numbers

February 16th, 2010

Image from Dangerous Minds

Chatroulette, the fascinating new Web video chat service from 17-yr old Russian wunderkind Andrey Ternovskiy, is rapidly taking the Internets by storm.  Whether you think Chatroulette is an uncensored mess with unseen potential or it’s just the best thing going right now, it’s only a matter of time before everybody is talking about it.  With that in mind, I felt like conducting some informal surveys directly on Chatroulette to see what it’s all about.

I found that, despite a reputation for being a phallus-plagued 4chan-esque Internet backwater, most users are looking to Chatroulette for a fun, genuine chat experience with a member of the opposite sex.

Before I dive in to the numbers, in short, Chatroulette is a Web vidchat service akin to the non-video chat service Omegle.  Like Omegle, Chatroulette matches random webcam users with other random webcam users, no login, prior criteria, or preferences required.  Already, Chatroulette is producing craigslist “Missed Connections” and some pretty hilarious “Chatroulette Reaction” screencaps (NSFW!).  It appears that the general consensus around the blogosphere is that, like much of the Internet, lewd behavior and exhibitionism is the modus operandi of the site.  Following are some non-scientific figures I’ve produced to both challenge and support such conceptions.

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Google Buzz is a mess!

February 14th, 2010

Early last week Google began to roll out their new social sharing service “Buzz” to all of their Gmail users. Buzz is a “lifestream” (a lot like your News Feed in Facebook) where everything you are doing is combined with everything those you are “following” are doing, allowing for real-time sharing of Web content, images, status updates, and so forth. It’s pretty nifty in and of itself, considering that Google had also recently created social profiles of all their Gmail users and placed them in Google search results – basically, everything that’s already publicly available about a person through search brought in to one simple profile page (which users can control for privacy, of course). With the profile roll out and Buzz, users can now easily find and follow other people and see what they’re tweeting, what pics they are posting to Flickr, what music they are listening to on Pandora, and on and on.  Almost overnight, Google became one of the largest social networks in the world by turning their search engine in to a makeshift social network.

The only problem is, Google Buzz, the flagship and most critical functional element of this new Google social network, is a horrible mess!

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Canada’s History – The Colbert Nation Insta-meme

February 4th, 2010

During Tonight’s Colbert Report, host and Real American Hero™ Stephen Colbert called upon his Nation of followers to flood Urban Dictionary with the true definition of the term “Canada’s History”.

You see, nearly 100-yr-old vaunted Canadian cultural and historical periodical, “The Beaver”, was recently forced to change its name because of popular euphemisms which I won’t bother attempting to explain here, because if you don’t know you’ve been living under a rock or you’re over 55.

So, to correct this injustice and teach Canadian’s to never back down in the face of silly double entendres, Stephen posited what will forever be the magazine’s lament – the absolute truest definition of the term “Canada’s History” as it stands in Real America.

“Canada’s history: A depraved American sexual act involving moose antlers, maple syrup, and the Stanley Cup.”

Colbert added:

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Bill Murray’s February Calendar

January 28th, 2010

Bill Murray's February Calendar

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Content laundering: Technotise, Green Lantern, and user-generated marketing

January 27th, 2010

I’m a regular reader of Nikki Finke’s Deadline Hollywood Daily.  I think her blog is a pretty decent way of keeping tabs on all things business of Hollywood.  Sure, she has some detractors, and “TOLDJA” (which she is trying to trademark) gets pretty annoying, but she tends to have really great items on a daily basis.

So, this little item from yesterday about how she’s been getting bombarded by folks with links to YouTube user Jaron Pitts’s superbly fan-made Green Lantern and Technotise movie trailers caught my eye for a particularly noteworthy reason, in terms of copyright and infringement issues.  Before I dive in to that, though, first, the Technotise trailer he cut so you know what I’m talking about:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TPu-PRHtCWE

Basically, Pitts has assembled a trailer almost entirely out of infringing content from all kinds of sources (just as he did for the Green Lantern fake).  Sure, he’s doing it as a fan and we could get in to issues of participatory culture and the work of Henry Jenkins and why this isn’t necessarily a bad thing (and we all know I’d be a hypocrite to call him out for it myself… ahem) but what is REALLY interesting isn’t so much that Pitts is doing the infringing, but rather for WHOM Pitts is doing it.  More after the jump.

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